Sunday, March 18, 2012

The Saints are coming, the Saints are coming.

I am sitting in my local restaurant mainly because my wife is working today and we drove in together. Since it is 12:22 p.m., churches have let out and this place is filling up fast. Let me describe the room. There are a total of 34 individuals in this room.
3 are kids
17 are over 60
the rest are between the ages of 18 and 60
There are 5 people of color.
12 tables are being used by these 34 individuals
All of these people and not one group is talking to the other group. Everyone of these people are wearing "Sunday go to meeting" type clothes. (you guys know what i'm talking about, so don't ask). If we are going by clothes, then everyone of them went to church. How come if that is the case they are not talking to each other?
The reasons?
1: they don't know them
2: they are really eating their lunch and in a hurry
3: they don't have time
Oh, this is funny. Two more just walked in and walked back out. The line was way long and they chose not to wait.
Here are my thoughts.
Why can't these folks talk to each other? They go to church according to their clothes. I am watching them and as my kids would say I am staring at them. Why will they not speak to each other. Tables are so close, but yet, the people are so far from each other.
I am thinking out loud. When visitors come into our churches, who speaks to them?
Just asking...

The locked keys

In my soon to be 28 years of marriage I did something today that I have never done before. I walked out of my house and locked the door with my keys in the house. This was a first for me. I forgot to charge my cell phone last night and my battery had only 5% battery power. I called my wife at work and the first time I called the fax machine picked up. I called the second time and it was busy. I called the third time and I got the assistant manager. I asked for Debra. My phone said to "charge your phone" and then Debra answered. I explained my situation and said I really do need you to come let me in the house. Naturally she laughed.
I can give a bunch of analogies about this but I will just state the obvious facts. I messed up. It was all my fought. I should have placed my keys in my pockets the night before like I have done for the past 28 years. It was my fault. As a result of my fault, I had to get help from someone close to me.
Now the Christian part of this story. Today, some of you reading this will realize that you have messed up. My message to you today is that you call someone and ask for help. It may be hard, but you just might not make it without help.
Our faith with God is depending on God. We cannot make it without God. We need His help everyday. He really does love to hear from his kids who say, "hey Dad, I messed up. Can you help?"

Saturday, March 17, 2012

The clothes of a Christian

I write this today not to stir up trouble but to point out a point. I was working today in my yard and to be more specific, on my boat. This is my 6th boat that I have owned, for I have given away my previous 5 boats. So, I was setting up the seats and replacing the wood in the back(transom) and doing the odds and ends. Well, it was in the high 70's and low 80's while I was working on this boat and I was hot. I was dirty, my hair was a fright. My arms were bloody from all the cuts and scratches. I was just a fright.
Now, here is my thing. I left the work to drive to Wal-mart to pick up something and while I was walking in, I noticed that I was filthy. So, I sat down on the bench in the Air Condition lobby and started assessing my situation. Do I continue my path to the isle to pick up my item or just walk back away and get in my truck and drive 15 miles to my house and clean up? So, while I was sitting down, I started observing the people of Wal-Mart. I was trying to figure out who were Christians by their clothes. You know something, I couldn't tell. So, it made me think about this. What if you had a church on the beach. Or rather, what if the Lord directed you on Sunday mornings to set up a tent on the beach for the vacationers to come in and have church? Would you allow them in their swimming attire? Would they be allowed to sit on the front row or the back row in their bathing suits? I recently read of a church that felt the Lord impressed them to do such a thing. Man, the response was great. Souls coming to church in bathing suits.
So, would you allow a person to come into your church with shorts and flip flops?
I wonder when Jesus was walking by the seaside talking with the brothers if he was wearing his Sunday go to meeting clothes or his regular everyday clothes?The clothes don't make us saved or not. The repentance of our heart does that.
Dresses or pants or long sleeves or dress shoes or tennis shoes or flip flops. The heart my friends, the heart.

Wednesday, February 22, 2012

Changing your Bait

I went fishing the other day and I must confess that I love to fish. I enjoy all types, but mainly, I enjoy bass fishing. Now, any good fisherman worth his weight in salt will not spill his beans on his lures he uses to catch his fish. However, I will share some insights on what happened yesterday while fishing with a relative.
I had my "favorite" lure attached to my favorite rod/reel combo. I was casting and casting and casting and absolutely nothing happened. Well my fishing partner was fishing with his favorite lure and he was catching them left and right. So, guess what I did? Nothing! I kept on using my favorite lure to no good.
Here is my point.
Sometimes we have to change to catch the fish we desire to catch. I had some people from El Salvador attend our restaurant church this past Sunday. I now have to learn Spanish. Now, you may say they need to learn English. Well, that is true and that would be nice. But, they told me they have been living in my town for 7 years and not one time have they been to church. 7 years with no church. Someone has to reach them for Christ. I think that I will start to learn Spanish.
I will change my bait.

Sunday, February 5, 2012

What do you value?

I was recently watching a re-run of M*A*S*H the other night and something Hawkeye Pierce said struck a thought in my mind. We as Americans have lost our value system. Hawkeye was the attending Physician to a wounded soldier. This soldier was wounded in his knee. His dad was a General and was visiting him. The next day Hawkeye came into the Generals trailer and told him his son had died. The conversation that followed is amazing. The General asked Hawkeye if he had any children. Hawkeye said, "No, i'm not married."
There use to be a time when we all said that. Children were associated with people being married. A Man and Woman united and then the children were born. Today it is not that way. Our society is littered with people who desire to experiment with living together first and if we have kids, no worries. Our values have changed.
According to this website, http://www.fatherhood.org/media/consequences-of-father-absence-statistics 24 million children live without a Father in the house. This same website says that between 1989 and 1990 217,798 children were born and infants without a father's name on the birthday certificate were 2.3 times more likely to die the first year of life compared to infants with a father's name on a birth certificate.
It is not an acceptable lifestyle to live together.
It is not an acceptable lifestyle to have children out of marriage.
Now, you cannot change what has happened. However, you can surely change once you have opened your eyes and seen the truth. Hawkeye may have had a whiskey distill in his tent, but man, he sure told us what he valued.


Tuesday, January 24, 2012

The behind the counter worker

I am sitting in a local restaurant this morning writing this article. This particular restaurant is on the local highway which connects two small cities together. It is well traveled by “outsiders” who are passing by as well as the locals. Today is no exception to the crowd. There is a mixture of outsiders and locals dining in this morning.

I am sitting here trying to figure out which ones are Christians by their actions. I see five sets of tables being utilized by these various groups. One table, the elderly man asked one of the elderly women to pray over their food. Does this constitute them being Christians? I see a middle age man and woman eating their food and discussing God, but yet, they did not pray. Are they Christians? The others are just eating and not talking. So, who are the Christians?

One man is at the front counter now complaining about his order. Is this man a Christian? The worker at the counter is definitely not a Christian (her works before coming in prove that) and she is smiling at the young man as he is complaining. I wonder if she saw him praying over his food prior to walking up to the register to complain. I wonder if she is not a Christian because of this young man’s actions.

Two bicycle missionaries come walking in now. Are they Christians? They have their black pants, white shirt, ties, and their satchels as they order their food. I got distracted and couldn’t see if they prayed over their meal. Others around them are ignoring them with the exception of one table. They are “whispering” and laughing about them. Does that make them Christians because they are riding around on bicycles sharing their gospel? I wonder what would happen if other denominations rode around on bicycles? Would our community see that as being Christian?

A boisterous child comes running in now. His mother is scolding him for being so loud and unruly. Some of the tables are murmuring among themselves stating how they would handle the situation. The mother is frustrated in her attempts to get her child to calm down. He is still very active. She is saddened in her eating. Not one person went to her and spoke. Several murmured to their eating partners about the situation. Is that mother a Christian? I wonder if she saw the praying eaters talk about her.

The prayers got up and walked out the door. They left their trash on their table. The worker behind the counter saw this. She turned and talked to another worker and both workers stared at the table. The behind the counter worker walked over and cleaned the table off. No tip due to this being a fast food restaurant. Just a disgruntled worker who isn’t a Christian cleaning the trash from a table where people prayed over their food.

A nice couple walks in. They greet the behind the counter worker with a smile and “how you doing?” She smiled back and said she is fine. They give the order and politely say thank you to the behind the counter worker. They walk by some other eaters and smile and speak. They sit down and join hands and say a small prayer thanking God for their meal. They talk some small talk and just as quick as they sat down, they were standing up. They clean up their mess. They walk up to the counter and ask the young lady at the counter for a rag. The behind the counter worker asks why. The young couple said they spilled some coke and they would like to clean it off. The behind the counter worker smiled and said she would clean it off. She walks over to the table and cleans the spill. The young couple waits with her and apologizes for their error. They share pleasantries with each other and depart. The behind the counter worker walks back and goes to fellow worker and talks. They both look over toward the table and smile.

I wondered if the behind the counter worker saw Christ today in the restaurant? Another group of travelers are arriving in now. In fact these are very intriguing to me. One is a set of women who are wearing long dresses, no make-up, and their hair all standing very tall. The other is a group of teenagers wearing tee shirts that has some sort of biblical connotation writing on it. They are in a “church” van. One of the tee shirts kids walks up to order. This young person is a teenager of color. One of the long dresses and long hair and no make-up look at the teenager and…

The cycle starts over again with this behind the counter worker.

Tuesday, January 17, 2012

Why churches should have "color"

Our society is filled with all kinds of woes. People are losing jobs on a daily attitude. Just today, I was told of a 40 something year old man that lost his job due to lack of business. He has worked in the same field for 24 years. This is heart wrenching for this man and his family. What will he do?
Television is making a mockery of what normal families should be like. Hollywood is showing the world that Christ isn't that important. Fill all of this with schools acting like idiots and you then have to look at our churches.
Drive by any normal typical church and look at the racial atmosphere of the churches. Why are churches, both white and black afraid to have people of color sitting in the same congregation? We can go to any restaurant in America and work with any race, but for whatever reason, we cannot worship the same God together. Why?
It saddens me to know that we have people who will openly say that they will not sit in the same church with someone who is a different color than them and be happy for saying such things.
My idea of a true heaven is anyone who is saved (born again). Not only the ?'s and the ?'s
If you have asked Christ in your heart, then you are it my friend.
So, I ask again, why can't churches have people of different color worship together? Because they don't want to do such a thing is the nice way to say it. I am more concerned about our young people today. Will they grow up to act the same way?
Look at your church my friend and ask a simple question. If someone of a different color walked in, would their be gasps and aw or would their be "welcome?"